My Friendship with The Minion

It's been so long since I've wrote on here...where should I begin? Oh yeah, I graduated university with a Bachelor's Degree in Fine Arts. I finally got a better job that I love and enjoy going to every Monday through Friday. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. Oh, and in 2011, I made a new friend. His name is Doron (pronounced "dough-rone"), and for starters, he used to do porn under the alias "The Minion." Some people think I'm insane for having a friendship like the one I have since he still works in the industry editing footage or whatnot. Another confession, I used to watch some of his clips online when he was a performer. Now, don't say you haven't watched porn before. I believe everyone over 18 has watched it before. Anyways, I used to wonder who "The Minion" was. Was he really some big obnoxious dude who made female performers do weird sex scenes in order for a chance at major stardom in the industry? Or was it just a character? I did a bit of research and found out his name was Doron. I also found out he was a Hispanic Jew, which to me is pretty cool since I never knew anyone like that. I found he had a myspace.com account but it hadn't been logged into in a long time. I kinda figured my research took a detour to no answers. Finally, in 2011, I randomly wrote his name and this nickname I saw he used on twitter.com and sure enough, I found him. I decided to tweet him and I proclaimed my admiration for him. A day later, I got a response from him that said, "Thanks! Let's do brunch!" And I knew then and there it was The Minion himself. I found out he retired due to his contract ending and he was now producing and editing. I then tweeted him back and forth and found his Facebook account. We became fast friends and to this day, I treasure the friendship I have with him. He is very funny, laid-back, down to earth, and most of all, a good friend to me. In conclusion, this is my friendship and I wouldn't have it any other way.

So What?!

The title of this post is called So What?! for many reasons and it's about all of the stuff I've experienced this year. I'm a big supporter when it comes to "Free Speech" and I feel obligated to say whatever I want online. What happened was yesterday on Facebook, my comments on this article about this 10 year old that apparently hung herself got removed because I said something about that this generation of parents should teach their kids right from wrong. When I wrote that as my status, this stupid bitch called me cruel and said suicide is a different thing all together from parents teaching right from wrong. Um, excuse me, bitch, but what do you know about parenting? Who knows if this child killed herself? She was 10 years old. Most children don't contemplate suicide unless they've experienced very traumatic events in their life.(This is my opinion, don't judge me!) This child could've played that game called the choking game, in which one hangs themselves to cut off the circulation in their airways in order to experience this brief euphoria and rush similar to that one experiences during an orgasm. It could've been an accident. I didn't get to read this article because I was too infuriated to yesterday. Because that stupid bitch wrote on my status and got support from another bitch, I deleted and blocked her cuz, well frankly, I find her to be the most annoying person on the planet. She hasn't changed once since high school and all she does online is bitch and moan about why her relationship with this guy hasn't been going well. One day, she breaks up with him. Then they make up and get back together. Then they break up again and make up and so on and so forth. I personally believe it's not working because her bf has a daughter from a previous relationship and sometimes people that single parents date may or may not want to have children so they end up forging fake acceptance in order to get the love and affection from the person they're dating. For example, when my ex said he didn't want children, I for a few days tried to accept that and see what it'd be like having a future with no children. For days, I was miserable and crying and I found that the only solution to this problem was this: to leave that loser and find someone who has the same interests and dreams like I do. I did just that, and as a result, I found an awesome man that I want to share the rest of my life with now. :D

I'm So Glad I Left My Ex...Cuz I Found My Soulmate!!!

Turns out my ex was nothing more than a greedy, selfish bastard that only cared about himself and his friends. I was on the bottom of his list of priorities. He not only didn't want to have kids, but he on the other hand, is still a kid mentally due to some injury to his brain from getting hit in the head with a baseball. I wanted to get back with him, but in a text message he was like, "We're not going steady, we're dating." and I was like, WTF?!? I wasted almost 7 months of my life with you and you're telling me we're not going steady?!? With that being said, I texted him back and said, I'd rather be friends and haven't spoken to him since. I dated another guy after him but his priorities when it came to relationships differed than mine. Plus, he's been around the block and back plenty of times, if you know what I mean. A few weeks later, I was checking my email on the site http://www.plentyoffish.com/ when I found an email from a dude whose profile I peeked on once or twice. He wrote to me saying that he heard I was looking for a nice sweet guy and that many people told him he was nice and sweet. I emailed him back and asked how he was doing, where he was from, what his family was like, etc., etc. and I randomly blurted out if he'd like to meet me at this club in my town. He said sure and the first 2 days we tried to meet up didn't work cuz my bff couldn't find the club on day 1 and on day 2, she wasn't feeling well and fell asleep with her phone off. I guess it's true when they say the 3rd time's the charm because on Sunday, June 13th, I met the man of my dreams face to face. His name is Raul and he is everything I've been looking for in a man: dark hair, dark eyes, great sense of humor, sweet personality, tan skin, Hispanic, and just so handsome!! On top of that, he's very intelligent and knows a lot about computers and video games way more than I do. Another thing, he tells me I'm beautiful and sweet everyday and loves looking at the photographs I create! Another great thing about him is that he has the same dreams and ambitions for the future as I do: get into and graduate school, get engaged, get married, and start a family. He tells me he can't wait to be a Daddy just like I can't wait to be a Mommy! :D It's been 3 months since we've became a couple and I'm still happy and joyful with him no matter what happens! I can't wait for what the future holds for us cuz it's looking great!!

Moving On With Life

Well, last Friday I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 7 months. We're still friends and it's all good. It took me days to recover from breaking it off with him because I really thought he was the one. He is such a nice guy. He didn't put pressure on me for anything at all, but the one thing that I couldn't handle was that he didn't want to have kids in the future and that hurt me a lot. I know it's way off in the future having kids and I thought I was going to get back with him. Turns out he didn't want to go steady and just "date." Not only that but he didn't want to call me up. All he did was text me and say that he was busy watching his Yankee game. That's when something snapped in me. He was putting baseball and friends before his girlfriend. That really struck a nerve in me and that's when I decided that it's better to be friends cuz he doesn't seem to have the time for a girlfriend.